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Monday, 15 August 2005

  • I'm forcing myself to sit down for a bit and update. Life has been whizzing by at a lightning pace lately. I stop to look at the calendar and it's just really hitting me that in a week and a half I will be a married man! Not that it's a bad thing, just kind of the unknown. And I am looking forward to experiencing this next stage of my life, especially knowing that Z will be there with me every step of the way. I literally believe that from now until the hour of the wedding ceremony, every fifteen minute block of my life has been scheduled and commited to either, buying something, meeting someone, finding something, entertaining people, cleaning something, paying somebody, planning something or just plain thinking about when I have to do one of the above...   No one told me it was going to be this hard... To all the people whose weddings I've attended I'd like to say to you, "I'm sorry that I took all your hard work for granted and drank so much alcohol at your wedding!"

    Anyways, everytime I turn around, I'm handing someone a big fat check for something that I'm not even sure they're an expert at. Except for our photographer that is. I have the utmost confidence in Adam Tow and his lovely assistant that they will provide us with beautiful photographs of our day.

    Z's friends came to visit us from NYC for a week. Since one of the bridesmaid will only be able to make it out here on the day of the wedding and then fly off again, she was nice enough to come early and spend some time with us. I took the week off while Z worked, so I was the acting tour guide this time. We went to Winchester Mystery House, a must see apparently according to B's home-brewed New Yorker's guide to the Silicon Valley. Even though I've always lived nearby the Winchester Mystery House the last 25 years, I've never been there until last weekend. And let me tell you that I probably won't be returning there to visit for another 25! Maybe the Halloween flashlight tours are a little better. It was pretty funny to be driving around town and having a passenger shout out from time to time: "HP!"......"Apple headquarter!"....... and this one really busted me up: "It's eBay! I loooove eBay....can we stop??". What were they gonna do, bring them an apple pie like in that AOL commercial?

    A few more days at work and I'll be off for a couple weeks. Not that I'm getting much work done at work these days anyways. I'm always online surfing for things such as where to get a marriage license in Monterey, buying furniture to support the half a dozen house guests we'll have from the east coast shacking up with us right up until the wedding, and ofcourse keeping up with news in the outside world.

    I feel like I've been living in my own little cocoon for the past few weeks. I have no idea what anyone else is up to, not even my bestman. I apologize to those that I've been neglecting, it's really not on purpose! As 'Joliet' Jake Blues says it best: "IT'S NOT MY FAULT!"


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    <--- Check out this really cool tiffany lamp one of Z's friends got us. Shipped all the way from Hong Kong! I don't even know the person it's from, but many thanks to you!


Monday, 01 August 2005

  • Bachelor Party!

        My friends took me away this weekend for my suprise bachelor party. Bringing little but a small duffel bag for the weekend, I had no clue where we were headed. Chris picked me up from work friday afternoon and we were off. Driving up 680, I knew we must be headed to Sacramento to meet up with Bill and Tony. That night was suppose to be mellow. The restaurant and the backup restaurant they planned on taking me to was already closed, so we ended up in a hole in the wall chinese place called Hing Sing. I was worried at first by the strange odor and a table full of rednecks, but the food was amazingly good and I was happy we went there. True to his form, Bill would not have a Tsing Tao with the rest of us but instead stuck with his trusty Budweiser.We then headed toward a divey pool hall to shoot some sticks and drink some beer. It was fun and relaxing. Bill announced at one point to a group of girls that it was "Timmychanga's bachelor party", and one of them said, "That's not his real name is it??", haha. On the way out to catch a taxi home, I see a colorful sign that said RuRuLaLa. It was a Korean karaoke place! None of my caucasian friends have experienced asian karaoke before, so I said cancel the cab and headed across the parking lot towards RuRuLaLa with my friends in tow, thinking I'm just joking..


        I walk inside and get a room. We walk in and the first thing everyone says is "We're in this room by ourselves?!?", for they had only been in Karaoke bars where everyone sings in public. I could tell they were really unsure of the whole thing by now, but everyone being fairly drunk at this point from the 32oz. mugs of beer at the pool hall, we fired up the first song. Half way through "Footloose", everyone was screaming/singing at the top of their lungs, and at some point, completely out of normal character, Chris leaps up on the table while still singing, tips it, and falls and spills all the beers. One time the waiter, a short and skinny Korean guy came in to bring us more beer, and 6'2" Bill grabs him around the shoulder and yells "Come sing with us!!", he begged "No!! No!! I have to go back to work!!" and looked truely frightened by the sight of a bunch of drunken guys and probably mostly by Bill. Everyone thought karaoke was awesome, and we couldnt' get Bill to leave in the end.



        Next day of the suprise party, we drove up to Lake Tahoe where my friends chartered a sportfishing boat for the day. I caught a couple of good-sized lake trouts and watched a regatta in the afternoon. There were many attractive people there sportin' nothing but scanty swimwear and fancy silicone. We were pretty much unrecoverable from the night before, so we headed to Harvey's where they had booked a suite for me. South Lake Tahoe is very classy as far as casino towns go. We had a great dinner at the Sage Steakhouse where they like to set their meats and desserts on fire. Afterwards we chilled out with cigars and scotch at the hotel lounge gearing up for a night of gambling, entertaining ourselves by playing Spot the Hooker.

        I love to watch Tony gamble. First minute of stepping foot into the casino, he plops a couple bills on red at the roulette table right before the No More Bets sign comes up, and doubles his money before the rest of us even decided on what to play yet. The best is seeing the other players at the table, whose probably been there for half an hour, up and down on five dollar bets, stare at him in disgust as he comes and leaves with his winning. I don't really gamble, but the boys put together a gambling fund for me that night, and told me they'd kill me if I didn't use it at the casino and instead bought a mutual fund or something with it. So I obliged and promptly lost it all at the craps table, although I was ahead at one point..

        I'm a light weight these days as I don't smoke and I rarely drink. That night, I must've had 6 or 7 different kinds of alcohol, cigars, coffee and energy drinks. Surprisingly no hangovers, but I was zombie like most of the night in the casino, to which I apologize to my friends for, for they had obviously spent a lot of time planning and a lot of money on this trip.


        Sunday morning, on the advice of Tony, we hit up the infamous buffet at Harrah's.  Instead of heading back home afterwards like responsible adults, we hit the casinos again for a couple hours. In the parking lot, I saw a couple giving their dog in the back of their SUV food and water, and then shut it inside again to go back and gamble some more. I hope they don't have kids!
        I had a blast on the trip, especially the unplanned karaoke, and ofcourse pulling in a couple 4 pound lake trouts out of one of the 10 deepest lakes in the world! I just wish I had my camcorder with me at RuRuLaLa...



Monday, 06 June 2005

  • Movie, Dinner, Dinner, Movie

    Friday night we had a quick bite of Japanese food at Kamakura in downtown Los Gatos before running down the street to the quaint, 50's era Strand theater to see Saving Face , a Chinese comedy-drama-romance by director Alice Wu. I enjoyed the movie, not because of the Chinese lesbian sex scenes as you would think, but because it was different from typical Chinese films. The role-reversals and cultural taboos explored was what made the movie interesting. Go see it, and if you feel comfortable viewing sexually explicit scenes with your parents, take them too!

    Saturday, we picked up with Kaf and his wife on the way to North Beach for dinner. I'll just say that parking in North Beach is comparable to the act of trying to restrain an angry greased pig with your bare hands.. Adding to the mayhem was some kind of event at the park in front of the Saints Peter and Paul Cathedral. All I could see was a few hundred people sitting in lawn chairs facing a huge screen, and a really long line at the quarter bathroom booth. Movie night perhaps? We were all starving, so we ducked into the first Italian joint we could find without a wait. I forget the name, but it was small, cozy, and every inch of the walls and ceiling were covered with brightly colored arts and crafts. I just remember a lot of hand-painted pots and pans hanging over my head and that Kaf mentioned how it looked like a dusting nightmare.

    Sunday, I biked from the trail starting behind my backyard to a local lake. There were lots of people walking their dogs, fishing, sun tanning and watching their kids on the playground. Feels like summer is finally here. I stopped by to help my Aunt and Uncle setup their new karaoke system, tested it out by singing a Chinese duet song with my aunt, and went to Rock Bottom brewery for dinner. Feeling restless after dinner, Z and I caught a 9:15 showing of Madagascar. Dreamworks is no Pixar, and Chris Rock is much more entertaining when you can actually see him visually as he delivers his lines. This should've gone straight to home video. So there you have it, a weekend of decadence!

     

Wednesday, 01 June 2005

  • audiology





    I'm addicted to these new headphones i got online. What started as a padding item to get my LCD purchase over a minimum amount to use the 35% off coupon has turned me into an audio snob of sorts. These headphones are closed, over-the-ear style, like the the ones DJs wear. I thought it was a good idea to have a pair of these since my coworkers tend to congregate in the hallways nearby. But now I find myself taking these headphones with me home and bringing it back to work the next day so I don't have to use the earbud phones I usually use. What a world of difference, the bass response seems sub-sonic with these. And I really enjoy listening to music again, everything sounds new. I have a 6.1 Onkyo home theater system in the living room and music doesn't sound quite as nice as through these $50 headphones. You get the picture yet?

    I'm listening to Faye Wong's Jiang Ai album. After watching 2046 last night, I am fascinated by Faye all over again. I guess I'm listening to it because the soundtrack of the movie reminded me alot of this album. Zhang Zi Yi didn't look as amazing as usual, maybe because she portrayed a more mature and cynical character this time instead of the "Oh, I'm kinda helpless and innocent but can still kill you with my pinky" type of role. I'm so difficult to please sometimes..

    Speaking of hard to please, when my company moved to the new building I made sure I got a quiet corner location on the second floor. Now that I've been here a month, it actually feels kind of lonely. In the old building, I would know the schedule of practically everyone on the ASIC design team. I was the gate keeper of the geeks. Now it seems that if more than two people passed by my doorway in a day it would be considered unusual traffic. At first, I took my gym bag to the locker room downstairs and changed, brought my civilian clothes back up and then went downstairs to workout. Now I just change right at my desk. No one walks by, and if they did, there's not a real direct line of sight from the hallway to me in my boxer briefs anyways. I don't see my boss or coworkers anymore unless I need to talk to them. I suppose it's better than being micro-managed, but I hope I won't start taking it for granted so I can keep my productivity up at work.




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